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How To Introduce BDSM Session

Whether your first BDSM session fantasies date back to your puberty or you only have a few days to discover the subject, the time has finally come; You have made the decision to make your fantasies come true.

But how to start? How to meet a gambling partner? How to decide which person is a good option? Etc. What seemed like the end of the road is nothing more than a new beginning, with a range of options and an avalanche of decisions to be made. Precisely to help make those decisions, I wrote these lines that contain 5 tips that I hope will be useful.

1.- Learn about BDSM sessions. If you already have time with the concern, you probably already know something about it. Either way, you never stop learning and fortunately we live in an age where the internet facilitates learning. You will find numerous options: blogs, digital magazines, videos, forums, chats, specialized sites, etc.

But although the options are numerous, we must not lose sight of the fact that much of the material that we will find on the net may be of dubious quality, not to mention that they are superb nonsense. It will be up to us to debug all the information and use only the "correct" material. For that, all you have to do is compare different sources and use common sense to define, with some certainty, what is usable material and what is not. Another way to learn is by approaching real practitioners, an aspect that we will see in the next point.

2.- Get closer to real practitioners. I consider there are 3 options:

a) Join a real group: I mean a group of practitioners who meet regularly, whether for parties, coffee talks, etc. This, undoubtedly, is the best option; it is faster, you reduce risks and dangers, you meet many people, etc. A good option is a BDSM session.

b) Join a virtual group: the problem with virtual groups is that it is full of morbid people (eg, people who will never get to anything real and who only want someone who hears their ears), people who don't know (eg, big "Masters" who think that dominating is to spank 2 and penetrate the submissive), etc. You must be very careful to distinguish who is real and who is not. He is attentive to their participation, what they share, their behavior, etc.

c) 1 to 1 meetings: it is the slowest and most dangerous way to contact someone, but if you do not succeed in the virtual group there are not many more options. You just have to search in specialized chats and, armed with great patience to support all the "pajilleros", try to find among the participants someone who knows BDSM session and who is also interested in a real meeting.

In any case, in any of the options, be careful, take your time and always keep in mind the basic security principles: have a security call (trusted person who knows where you are and calls you to verify that everything is fine), no forget that your first appointments should be in public places, do not give personal information at the first exchange, etc.

3.- Know the prospect: once you have met a potential prospect in person, you should focus on deepening your knowledge of that person (as much as possible). What experience does he have? What practices are to your liking? What limits does it have? What are you looking for? Etc.

The more you know about your prospect, the less likely you are to be in for a nasty surprise.

4.- Define your limits: decide what you are interested in experiencing and with what intensity. It is dangerous to go around saying "I am ready for everything", "I have no limits", etc.

Go slowly; time to live and experience you will always have.

5- Agree on the scope of your session: before meeting, agree with your prospect. In addition to defining a security word, I consider that it is always better to limit the BDSM session with what you can, leaving out everything that is not expressly authorized.

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When you say the word Bondage, it is very likely that you will be scared or think of a very rough sexual practice that you would not dare to experiment, but as everything can have a softer and less intense side. Today we help you to have an open mind and not say no at once. Get started in the Bondage No trauma!

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